By Axel Chatwin
The attraction between the sexes is a very powerful mechanism, capable of establishing a link even among people who have known each other for a few minutes. Moreover, it is such an irresistible thought that it makes all the other necessities and duties strangely meaningless, boring and irrelevant When one feels far from the object of one’s desire, one becomes unable to eat, to sleep, to concentrate on anything. What matters, in these cases, is only the next meeting with the desired person: at the thought of meeting it you can feel euphoric, happy, satisfied.
Who would therefore reject such luxury, such a fortune? Yet in many cases the strong attraction for a “wrong” person can be very dangerous and destabilizing. It is not by chance that the Greeks believed that sexual attraction was like a weapon, a dart, capable of piercing the flesh and taking possession of a soul, causing chaos, both among humans and in the world of Gods.
Think for example of those dangerous relationships that women establish with the so-called “scoundrels”:
Potentially dangerous and unreliable subjects, but still very attractive to the other sex. At the New Mexico State University of Las Cruces, researchers studied the character of 200 university students considered “bad boys” (or scoundrels) to understand what the salient features of their personality were and why they liked women so much. It has thus been seen that their personality characteristics of this type of man include traits of insensitivity, impulsive behaviors, extroversion, narcissism and other behaviors commonly considered anti-social. For the hentai games this is the best deal.
- The conclusion of Peter Jonson, who led the research, is that even if society tends to look down on these “negative” personality traits, being a bad guy at the end pays off, and a lot, in dealing with the other sex, especially if the couple’s goals are short-term. The classic type of scoundrel is similar to the modern figure of James Bond: a man with little empathy for others, with a weakness for fast cars and even faster relationships with the other sex (the quantity matters to him much more of quality). These personality traits, explains Jonson, are evidently successful in facilitating mating and for this reason they have been maintained and strengthened during human evolution. Other explanations about these dangerous attractions could however be sought in other factors, such as physiological, before psychological.
It is possible in fact that a male with these characteristics of dominant personality can be perceived as more endowed with testosterone and therefore considered more rich in charm and sexual appeal. It must also be said that in the long run, the man-rascal collects only failures, being unable to build a relationship based on trust, intimacy and commitment. Sometimes you can feel an attraction at first sight for a person, because it seems that it resembles your ideal, and then you are disappointed by his way of doing, his conversation, and his interests. Expectations are often unrealistic: many women tend to build their ideal human figure based on romance novels, photo novels or soap operas, while many men rely primarily on sexual expectations.
